Love, Lies & Euro Dreams: A Nigerian-Italian Woman’s Marriage at a Crossroads
🌍 GLOBAL EGBERI MEDIA INTERNATIONAL
💔 Love, Lies & Euro Dreams: A Nigerian-Italian Woman’s Marriage at a Crossroads
🖋️ By Prince Agbedeyi Odimientimi Desmond
📜 Original Story by Seigha Dora Ayedi from Italy
ROME— In a story that could pass for a Nollywood blockbuster titled "Visa or Vows: The Chronicles of Madam Italy", a Nigerian woman living in Italy has found herself in a classic spaghetti-jollof soup of emotional confusion, trust issues, and passport palava. 🥴
According to her testimony—which came with more sighs than an Italian opera—the woman, now in her 40s, had been living in Italy for several years. Her love journey has been nothing short of a romantic documentary directed by life itself. Her first boyfriend, an Ughobo man, gave her hope and pepper soup. But when it was time for “till death do us part,” he did the disappearing act and got married to another lady in Delta. Na so love vanish like NEPA light! ⚡
Man number two, an Edo Romeo, didn’t come with flowers but came armed with bills and bank account details. He allegedly used the age-old ‘I want to marry you’ format to chop her money, only to disappear like pounded yam in egusi soup. Scarred and smarter, she decided to take a break from the men of Italy and their Olympic-level games.
Then entered the Facebook Fiancé. A charming man from the Middle Belt who dropped sweet words and emojis like confetti. She flew to Nigeria, love in her heart and rice in her luggage. They got married—legally and spiritually. She was even travelling back and forth to visit him. All was well. Until one day, like a Nollywood script twist, she showed him her properties in Nigeria—a car, a hotel, and a shopping mall.
That’s when things spiraled like a telenovela in Yoruba subtitles.
Her husband allegedly accused her of hiding such vital information from him before marriage. He said, and I quote (with added dramatic effects): “How can I trust a woman who hides a shopping mall and two cars under her scarf? For this marriage to continue, you must bring me to Italy or consider yourself single again!” 💔🇳🇬✈️🇮🇹
The shock? the man’s family are supporting the husband’s ultimatum. She is now left in a sea of confusion, swimming between her past heartbreaks and the present pressure.
🎭 Commentary & Comic Wisdom
Let’s pause and break this down: A woman who has been duped by men before is being asked to ship her husband abroad—by force or by divorce. Dear madam, your story is giving “Come to Italy or Cry in Nigeria” energy. But be guided. 🚩
We understand the need to love and to trust again. But when trust becomes with a visa condition, we need to ask deeper questions. Is this marriage or international transaction? Because from all indication, the man seems to want to marry Italy, not just you. 😅
🧠 Moral Advice from Global Egberi Media International
- Love should never be blackmailed by immigration pressure. If the man truly loves you, he would support your growth regardless of location.
- Transparency is good, but so is timing. You were not obligated to list your assets on a CV before marriage. Your properties don’t define your love.
- Learn from history. Edo Man chopped you. Ughobo Man ghosted you. Be sure this Middle Belt man is not aiming for a European jackpot with emotional blackmail as luggage.
- Follow your instincts. You’ve been to hell and Vatican. Don’t let pressure from families make you hand over your peace to someone with a passport agenda.
- Seek counsel. Sit with neutral elders or a marriage counselor. Don't make life decisions from a place of confusion.
📚 Final Word
Dear Nigerian-Italian sister, as you sip your espresso and wipe your tears with a Gucci tissue, remember this: it’s better to cry alone in your hotel than to finance a man’s Italian dream only to be ghosted again. Love is not a visa application. It’s a lifetime commitment—no embassy needed.
We at Global Egberi Media are watching this story like Zeeworld—season by season. May wisdom guide your next episode. 🙏🍷
📰 Reported by:
Prince Agbedeyi Odimientimi Desmond
Global Egberi Media International
🎤 Story By:
Seigha Dora Ayedi (ZionAngel)
Reporting from Italy 🇮🇹
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